How Hong Kong couples can navigate their child’s transition to university
As our young adults transition to university, we understand our relationship with them will evolve. What we may not be prepared for are the changes that can occur in the relationship between parents during this time. This change may be more profound if, for various reasons, one parent decides to divide their time between Hong Kong and their student’s new campus. While well-intentioned, this long-term arrangement may put a strain on the relationship if not prepared for and managed collaboratively.
- Foster Open Communication – When making family decisions, openly share aspirations and emotions to understand and uplift each other through this journey. Use this transition to deepen connections by exploring dreams, hopes and fears together. Near or far, prioritise harmony and connection in your relationship by committing to regular, supportive, authentic communication.
- Unite in Purpose – Collaborate on tasks like travel plans, packing, and dorm set up. Consider opportunities for parents to take turns visiting their student’s campus, so one parent does not feel left behind.
- Nurture Connections – Harness technology to bridge distances. Share updates and experiences to keep your bond thriving. Make every call, message, or virtual gathering a chapter in your evolving family story. Embrace the joys and challenges of this new era together.
- Cultivate a Support Network – Connect with other parents navigating this journey. Sharing experiences and insights provides invaluable support and fosters understanding. This shared journey, embraced with compassion and care, strengthens your bond and creates a network that inspires and uplifts you.
- Check In and Adjust – Regularly check in with each other about how the current arrangement is working. Be open to adjusting plans or agreements if needed. Flexibility can help you navigate challenges together and ensure both partners feel supported.
With open communication, shared responsibilities, and a commitment to your relationship, Hong Kong couples can navigate their young adult’s university transition and emerge stronger than ever. Remember, this transition is both an ending and a beginning – cherish the moment, then embrace the journey ahead.
