Less About Perfection; More About Presence

This time of year, many parents feel caught between the joy and pressure of the season. Halloween, once a simple childhood joy, now often comes with the weight of ‘chaotic,’ ‘overwhelming,’ and ‘expensive’ expectations.

But what if we reclaimed it? What if Halloween became less about perfection and more about presence? Less about performance—and more about connection?

Halloween can be all about community, connection, and creativity.

Here’s what that looks like in practice:

Collaborative Preparation: The magic starts well before the 31st. Instead of rushing to buy a costume, co-create one with your child. Think storybook characters, nature themes, or DIY ideas that spark imagination. When kids help shape the experience, they feel empowered—and seen.

Fostering Safety & Inclusivity: By stepping away from fear-based or media-heavy themes, we create space where every child feels safe and welcome. It’s about joy, not judgment. Play, not pressure.

Celebrating Resourcefulness: The best costumes don’t come with a price tag. A cardboard box, some face paint, and a little creativity go a long way. It’s a powerful lesson in making magic with what we have.

Lighting Up Our Communities: Let’s shift from competition to collaboration. Halloween can be a night where apartment corridors come alive with light, laughter and neighbours connecting.
Let’s make this season about memories, not mayhem. When we lead with connection, we model something truly meaningful for our children: that joy doesn’t come from what we buy, but from how we show up.